If you take your experience with younger girls into dating older women, you’ll fail. The two kinds of relationship are quite a world apart.
People do not just grow in chronological age, they gain life experience, too; and their paradigm, likes and dislikes also shift. When girls are young, they are reckless and wouldn’t mind doing just anything for love; but older women are not anything like that. They are calculative, and know exactly what they want out of life.
Having said these, for you to enjoy dating older women, it’s imperative you learn how to win the heart of a sugar momma, and that’s what this post is all about. In it, you’ll learn how to be the kind of sugar baby sugar momma would love to be with.
Let’s delve in.
You’re in this to earn enough money to live the sugar life, so it’s logical to get as much as you can from your sugar momma, right?
Well, that’s right, but only for as long as you do it the right way. You don’t want to become a dishonest young man simply because you want your sugar momma to release more gold from her pause.
If you do, you’d likely lose your relationship sooner than you envisage, and it will be a loss on your side. If you want your allowance structure improved, lying and being dishonest isn’t the best way to go about it. You can instead discuss about it, letting your sugar momma know you aren’t comfortable with your current terms.
However, don’t be honest only in finances. Your sugar momma will appreciate you more if your life is an open book before her. Openness is a general rule that applies to all relationships, sugar dating included. There are only a few qualities that win the hearts of women of all ages like honesty.
Show That You Care
You’re honest, you live an open life and your sugar momma knows deep within her that she can trust you with her life. That’s good. Incredible. But there’s one more quality that your sugar momma would love to see in you: it’s called “Love”. Yeah, your relationship might not be the lovey dovey kind, but, if you’re going to spend some part of your life with someone, you might as well decide to show some love — after all, such an affection will turn out to be the icing on the cake for you two.
Women love to know that they’re being cared for, that someone got their back. Blessed is the sugar baby who portrays that, because he shall have all he wants from his sugar momma. The affection you show your sugar momma will determine if the gate of her heart will open up to you, and if it does, you’d be more than lucky, because you’d finally be able to live the sugar baby life — having all your needs met, always going on vacations, exotic dinners and so much more.
If you think about it, the benefits are worth the effort, so put in the effort to win your sugar momma’s heart, then sit back and watch as the miracle happens.